Every year the holidays are an opportunity to create new memories. As always, I try to make them festive and fun for my family. My seasonal decorating style has evolved over the years in parallel to the stages of my life. Now that my daughters are grown and my parents are no longer with us, I have paired down my style to reflect my current state. This year I purchased a fresh tree and decorated it simply with white lights and not with ornaments like I have done in the past. It is simple and elegant and was a stress free experience.
My theme this year is to keep it simple, fun and relaxing. I have taken a break from work and am letting things slow down so we can all relax and enjoy some new memories. I will be cooking and taking care of my little family and loved ones as we celebrate the season. As always we will remember those who are not with us and share some stories so they will not be forgotten.
While emotions can run high this time of year as well as end of the year stress, I am hoping to counteract that with good food, loving support and an inner calmness. Disconnecting from my phone and social media for a while has helped me as well as some quiet time spent reading, learning and considering what will be next year, is never wasted time. I am feeling excited and grateful for my life and all the people in it. This is what comes from spending some time reflecting and slowing down. While others around me are going at Mach speed, I try to be the port in the storm. The steady one who, at least for the moment, has it together.
With a plan in place for the holidays to be the nurturing one, I wish that this holiday season’s memories will reflect my love for my family and friends. Happy Holidays to you all and a Happy New Year! Cheers to 2020.